tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12556548.post116924674721629050..comments2023-11-02T07:25:12.285-04:00Comments on Paid to Party: Can you find love in a bar?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12556548.post-1169768111102701422007-01-25T18:35:00.000-05:002007-01-25T18:35:00.000-05:00I know you can meet people of substance in a bar, ...I know you can meet people of substance in a bar, but you do have to weed through the ones that are full of BS. I have had friends who met their husbands (and yes they are happily married)in a bar and I have actually made some really good friends through hanging out at bars. My friends and I used to say that we are good people hanging out and dancing, there have to be more people like us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12556548.post-1169754366612499072007-01-25T14:46:00.000-05:002007-01-25T14:46:00.000-05:00I am a person of sunstance, and I rarely go to bar...I am a person of sunstance, and I rarely go to bars. I once oved a man who did go to bars, and he met a tramp at one, and instead of marrying me, he married her.<BR/><BR/>I don't think men WANT women of substance. I think they LOVE women with no depth. I believe this because I am 34 years old, good-hearted, intelligent, witty, and very culture concious. And men either don't want me or leave me for women in bars. So if you want a husband, be stupid, be ruthless, and hang out at Fox and Hound.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12556548.post-1169740333905861832007-01-25T10:52:00.000-05:002007-01-25T10:52:00.000-05:00Yeah you can but only if you are able to weed out ...Yeah you can but only if you are able to weed out all the players.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12556548.post-1169676737859979662007-01-24T17:12:00.000-05:002007-01-24T17:12:00.000-05:00I know several happy couples who met in bars. One ...I know several happy couples who met in bars. One couple met in a bar, then OWNED one! It can happen.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12556548.post-1169568975004321152007-01-23T11:16:00.000-05:002007-01-23T11:16:00.000-05:00Yeah, you can find substance material folks in a b...Yeah, you can find substance material folks in a bar, just don't drink too much. If you drink too much, then you only notice the folks with non substance qualities. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12556548.post-1169341265759305732007-01-20T20:01:00.000-05:002007-01-20T20:01:00.000-05:00Anon @ 5:25 PM: Yes, we exist. :-)Anon @ 5:25 PM: Yes, we exist. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12556548.post-1169331919264413302007-01-20T17:25:00.000-05:002007-01-20T17:25:00.000-05:00I enjoy going to see live music and watch sports s...I enjoy going to see live music and watch sports so I do like the bar scene for that. (I'll be wathing the playoff's tomorrow!) I would hope there are some decent guys also with the same interest... You do have your players but they are so obvious its pathetic. So I would love to meet a guy who enjoyed hanging out listening to music and watching sports... But does he exists?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12556548.post-1169296772634520882007-01-20T07:39:00.000-05:002007-01-20T07:39:00.000-05:00Well, sure you can meet someone of substance at a ...Well, sure you can meet someone of substance at a bar! That's where I met my first 3 wives...and it was "substance" abuse!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12556548.post-1169266314951083662007-01-19T23:11:00.000-05:002007-01-19T23:11:00.000-05:00Of course you can meet a person of substance at a ...Of course you can meet a person of substance at a nightclub.<BR/><BR/>Now: Are you more likely to meet someone who's just looking to hook up at Crush (just to name one club as an example) than you are at a restaurant, or at church? Probably. And are you more likely to meet someone who's looking to settle down in a more sedate environment, such as church or an organized event, than at a club? Probably. You also need to factor into this that while many people may go to a wild club on a Friday or Saturday night, the folks who go to such clubs on Mondays and Tuesdays are probably of a different mindset.<BR/><BR/>As with most things, there are no absolutes here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12556548.post-1169259453582990712007-01-19T21:17:00.000-05:002007-01-19T21:17:00.000-05:00I think it can happen, actually I know it can. I m...I think it can happen, actually I know it can. I met a guy in a bar once and we dated for almost four years. I think it depends on the individuals. Yes you will meet more playa's then men but everyone once in awhile you just meet someone you click with. I can say I sure havent' met anyone at the gym, work, grocery store or in the park.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com